Why do I care?!?! She's a loser!!

Okay, I have to write this post right now or I won't be able to sleep...you don't have to read it. When we were looking for apartments in September we met the assistant manager here who we'll call M.L. She showed us around, she was a Michigan native, she was super friendly, and her service was part of the reason we chose to live here. She was really great in helping us get set to come out here and even came in on her day off to get us moved in on the day we arrived in Phoenix.

So, our papers are signed, she's going to take us over to the aparment and she keeps saying, "let's meet the dogs!" Now any of you who have ever "met" our dogs for the first time would understand why we were a little nervous...not to mention, she had her 2 year old daughter with her. So we try to hurry the dogs over to the apartment and get them locked safely away inside. She lets us unlock our door and we walk in...meanwhile she's standing outside. Everyone is sort of talking at once and she says something that sounds to me like we're all set - and considering it was her day off and I felt bad that she had to work anyway, I thought she was trying to make her exit. So I say, "Okay! So we're all set?" And she gives me this look like I'm being rude and says, "Yeah...enjoy your new place." I immediately feel as though I've made a mistake and thank her over and over for all her help, but she kind of hurries away. Other encounters with her since then have been curt and markedly less friendly than before that day.

Tonight, there is a knock at our door. After we stick the dogs in our room Dave answers the door. It's M.L. and she's pissed (she lives here too). She asks about a red pick up truck, Dan comes to the door and she barks, "Can you move your truck? You're in my spot." It seems he mistakenly parked in a reserved spot that was right next to an open/free spot. He apologized profusely and apparently she blatantly ignored him and went running into her apartment. I knew she was pissed about that first day!

Here's the real question...why do I even care?!?! I don't really know this person well, I didn't do anything wrong, and if she's pissy, it's because she's a petty person. I mean seriously, what kind of person gets jilted so easily? And what kind of person is so rude when someone is obviously apologetic about an honest mistake. I keep telling myself that she must lead a sad life, but I still can't stop thinking about it! How sad am I that I'm going to lay awake tonight thinking about this? Arrrggghhhhh! I hate myself!